Like children, dogs need guidelines and boundaries. Good leadership will earn your dog’s respect and help him to feel secure.
Here are a few ways to establish leadership:
1. The Leader Controls The Resources. Just as parents control allowance, curfew and use of the car, you should control all the “”good stuff”” when it comes to your dog.
Start with food and play:
Food is an incredibly valuable resource. As such, it should come from you, not from that round thing that is always magically full! Feed twice daily, rather than leaving food down. If your dog does not eat after ten minutes, pick the food up and put it away. Most dogs, even those previously free-fed, will quickly adapt to the new routine; no dog will starve himself. (If your dog is tiny, hypoglycemic, or has medical issues, check with your vet before switching to scheduled feedings.) For dogs with severe leadership issues or to kick-start your program, hand-feed meals (a few pieces at a time) for two weeks. Have your dog sit, shake, or down to get each handful of food.
Control toys and games. Leave your dog with a few toys, but reserve the really special ones for when you are present. Bring them out periodically and play with your dog. Now you are also the source of all fun! Note: Playing tug is fine as long as you control the game, and your dog knows “”Drop it”” (aka “”Out””). Bring out the toy; start to play. Periodically freeze, followed by saying, “”Drop it.”” When your dog releases, wait a beat, say, “”Take it”” and resume the game. (If at any time teeth touch skin, say, “”Too bad!”” and put the toy away.) When you have finished playing, put the toy away out of your dog’s reach.
2. Put Your Dog on a Learn to Earn Program. That means he must do something for you in order to earn anything that is valuable to him. If your dog wants to be petted, ask him to sit first. If he’s already sitting, ask him to lie down. Then pet. Have him sit (or do another behavior he knows) before meals, treats, walks, tossing the ball, and anything else he finds valuable.
3. Control the Space. If your dog zigzags in front as you walk, crowds you as you sit, or otherwise intrudes on your space, that’s not very polite! Leaders control space. For zigzagger’s, keep your feet firmly on the floor and shuffle right on through. Your dog will learn to move when legs approach. If you are standing and your dog crowds you, use your lower body to gently push him away. If you are sitting, fold your arms and gently move him away using your upper arm or forearm — do not speak or look at him as you do so. (Teaching “”Off”” is also helpful.)
At doorways (until your dog has learned to “”Wait”” or “”Back up””), either push your dog aside gently with your lower body or step in front to block his path. It is not necessary that you always pass through doorways first, but it should be your choice, and shoving is never acceptable!
4. Training. Practice obedience exercises and incorporate them into your everyday life. Down-stays are especially good for establishing leadership. Keep practice sessions short and frequent.
5. Handling. Teach your dog to accept handling. Do daily massage, including paws, ears and mouth. This practice also makes for easier groomer/veterinary visits and alerts you to any physical abnormalities. (If your dog has issues about being handled, address them with a trainer’s help.)
6. Good leaders are not bullies! Reprimand verbally when necessary, then forgive and move on. Never use scruff-shakes, jerking, hitting or other harsh physical corrections. Use assertive discipline not punishment to let your dog know what is right and what is wrong. Above all, be a calm and patient pack leader.